All of these things create a powerful psychological impression of someone being "harmless" in most people in our culture who see you for the first time It's unconscious and immediate, even if you don't admit it to yourself -- this is how our brains judge people And it's *false*
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Just imagining playing with Photoshop and altering Martinez's facial features as a teen until I hit the exact threshold point where if her eyes get a tiny bit bigger and closer together she gets saved and a tiny bit smaller and farther apart she stays a Nazi
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This isn't a small fucking thing, either This is why cops open fire on Black 12-year-old boys who automatically get upgraded into "almost-adults", while abusive white CEOs in their 40s who carefully dress like endearingly sloppy teenagers "still have a lot of growing to do"
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The Onion did this pitch-dark satire of the news media's "photogenic white woman" syndrome that's still one of the best things I've ever seen them dohttps://www.theonion.com/judge-rules-white-girl-will-be-tried-as-black-adult-1819594949 …
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People don't do enough self-crit about this, I feel Not willing enough to really engage with the idea they might be the same shallow horny animals as everyone else "This isn't empathy and compassion, you just think they're hot and you want to sleep with them"
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"Or you feel a visceral discomfort because they literally *physically* remind you of your own children, or yourself at a younger age If they didn't, you wouldn't care"
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