Isn't the blushing the first step between one and two? I mean, I don't mind the "fusion food" guy, but I take some issue with the people trying to do something authentic, botching it and then being angry when called out (cue every British cook ever, by the way).
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Replying to @MudDude4 @arthur_affect
I will say that I'm less annoyed by the first example because they typically react to being corrected with interest and curiosity. I've been in some truly cringe-worthy conversations with activists. Not all of them white, either.
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Replying to @MudDude4
It's not that she didn't know the "correct" way to say the word, it's that in her community growing up that's the way the word was said and she was uncomfortable changing it
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
I mean that's kind of my point She came from a community that was, by and large, dirt poor and that had eaten tortillas as a staple food for generations and that's just how they said it
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
It'd be kind of weird for me to treat her embarrassment as a "teachable moment" or to try to guide her onto the path of someday learning to say the word "tortilla" correctly, as though it actually mattered
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
It'd probably be different if I were of Mexican descent rather than just a cultural liberal who saw "incorrect" Anglicized pronunciations as déclassé and cringe I dunno I'm not really condemning people who get mad about this stuff, it's just... not my thing
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
I guess part of this is my own lived experience of being corrected on language shit is having it directed against me pretty often and bristling about it in general
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
Like, my immigrant parents were pretty bad about correctly pronouncing stuff from other languages - *not* just "white people" languages, any other language - and growing up I felt a lot of cultural cringe over that
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Replying to @arthur_affect @MudDude4
You get the same cringe factor if your parents grew up in some rural midwestern tiny town and then decided kids would have more better opportunities if they moved to a big eastern city.
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Replying to @OtterHale @MudDude4
The thing I've actually had a lot of difficulty admitting is that while there are huge, major differences that matter a lot, there are also ways in which my life and the life of someone from a redneck family who went to a fancy college aren't THAT different
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Kind of like what SNL was trying to say with the Black Jeopardy sketch with Tom Hanks
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