because news flash - in bed with your partner who’s asking you for anal sex should not be the first time a young person is figuring out how comfortable they are with that, or trying to learn on the fly how to do it safely that’s really unsafe mentally and physically
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Replying to @megawhelmed @CarolT52973604 and
so is it grooming to teach kids about PiV sex?
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Replying to @megawhelmed @CarolT52973604 and
penis in vagina, i.e. vaginal penetration
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Replying to @LuluRoseMcNair @CarolT52973604 and
Rather depends on the circumstances, but it may be. Say if they're teaching with sex dice, and pushing the idea of "enthusiastic consent" or giving kids books that suggest a six year old can enjoy giving head.
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Replying to @megawhelmed @LuluRoseMcNair and
Pushing the idea of enthusiastic consent? So let me get this straight... you think people should have sex when one or more parties doesn't consent? What is WRONG with you?
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Replying to @TheGnPTiara @LuluRoseMcNair and
Are you stupid or pretending to be stupid? Children can't provide consent, no matter how enthusiastic they are about it.
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Replying to @megawhelmed @TheGnPTiara and
One of the issues here is that "consent" applies to *all* forms of physical boundaries, not just sex Part of "enthusiastic consent" is teaching kids that it's wrong to touch another person at all without their consent, even "innocent" kissing or hugging or play-fighting
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Replying to @arthur_affect @megawhelmed and
Certain adults seem to react very negatively to this Not in the direction that would make sense -- "Kids can't consent" and therefore kids can't touch anyone or be touched ever But that "hugging is harmless" and therefore nonconsensual hugs are just fine
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There's been a LOT of discussion about how adults casually violating kids -- "Now I know you're not a hugger, but still!" "Jimmy, don't be rude to Grandma, give her a hug and kiss!" -- primes them for freezing up and being unable to articulate consent in sexual situations later
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Replying to @arthur_affect @megawhelmed and
And apparently the anti-"enthusiastic consent" people refuse to believe this narrative and think by even bringing the word "consent" into being hugged and kissed by your cheek-pinching grandma we're perverting the innocence of childhood or whatever The disagreeement runs deep
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