again, kids can’t learn what they’re comfortable with safely if they only get the chance consider it once a partner has already brought it up and they’re just going along with it the safe place to start considering your comfort levels is before you’re ever engaging in sex acts
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There's been a LOT of discussion about how adults casually violating kids -- "Now I know you're not a hugger, but still!" "Jimmy, don't be rude to Grandma, give her a hug and kiss!" -- primes them for freezing up and being unable to articulate consent in sexual situations later
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And apparently the anti-"enthusiastic consent" people refuse to believe this narrative and think by even bringing the word "consent" into being hugged and kissed by your cheek-pinching grandma we're perverting the innocence of childhood or whatever The disagreeement runs deep
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