I don't actually think all the things that went wrong in my life were because of my parents, and honestly when other people try to instrumentalize that I get really mad ("I'm just trying to save Asian women from their repressive home life", says the creepy white dude in college)
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I don't think that's actually a universal narrative -- most of the other Cuties don't have Amy's backstory at all -- and I think the laser focus on it is potentially damaging, like it's true, the movie doesn't have nearly as much to say about sexualization as a general problem
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But what's there is very raw and real, even if you think the execution of the dance crew part of the movie is bad enough the movie as a whole shouldn't have been made
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(The one thing about Cuties that was most hashtag-relatable to my childhood wasn't any of the stuff about twerking, obviously, but the whole thing with Amy having to attend her father's second wedding, the dress just sitting there the whole time as this looming harbinger)
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(And the sense of liberation she feels when her mom tells her she can skip it, how all of a sudden the weight lifts and she realizes she doesn't want to be part of Cuties anymore either I should talk about my story with baptism sometime)
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