Okay but dude the word "privilege" is inappropriate to apply to a freely chosen option I'm "privileged" compared to someone who involuntarily became a parent by getting pregnant at 16 and having their right to an abortion denied I'm not "privileged" relative to you
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Replying to @arthur_affect @izs
Unless you genuinely think the parent/childfree divide is analogous to something like sexual orientation, where you are wired as a person so you can only be happy if you have kids and other people as wired so they can only be happy if they don't
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Replying to @arthur_affect @izs
In which case, sure, yes, you have a point - I get a certain level of happiness "for free" that you only get through years of grueling labor and $250k at least in monetary costs etc etc
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Replying to @arthur_affect @izs
But if you really believe that's a fundamental divide then we've got bigger problems Because even today the kind of person I am gets stigmatized a LOT more by society than the kind you are, and this is amplified 100x for women
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Replying to @arthur_affect @izs
I haven't nailed down exactly how I feel about this but I currently think it's more helpful to treat it as a choice than an innate orientation A lot of childfree people could've had kids and chose not to You could've not had kids but chose to
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And if this is the kind of choice that's personal enough that no one has the right to judge, which I think it is, and therefore everyone who makes whatever choice deserves unconditional support in that choice, which I agree with, "privilege" is a very wrong word to use here
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