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I’m not super educated on transgender issues so correct me if I’m wrong but If ur honestly that uncomfy/possibly unsure just use they/them??? I know I wouldn’t be offended if somebody used they pronouns even tho I’m cis?? It’s not that big of a dealhttps://twitter.com/AppTransman/status/1109122372848795649 …
And like, obviously you don’t have to start every conversation with asking about someone’s pronouns. My general rule is to start off using gender neutral pronouns and they’ll usually tell you what their pronouns are