@Nick_B_Steves
The rules exist regardless. If you don't formalize them, they're very likely to get overstepped and cause problems.
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Replying to @Alrenous
@Nick_B_Steves The problem you likely want to bring up is that we often pretend friends are better than they are. Formalizing the limits...1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @Alrenous
@Nick_B_Steves ...is likely to directly cause a friendship rift. This isn't a problem of#NeonHillism. It's a problem of insecure friends.5 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @Alrenous
@Alrenous@Nick_B_Steves >> and once you set something in stone its hard for a fluid developmental relationship to occur1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @soapjackal
@soapjackal@Nick_B_Steves To clarify, my position is -if- you feel your friends have obligations toward you, you must formalize or give up.5 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @Alrenous
@Alrenous@soapjackal@Nick_B_Steves can you formalise the attitude with which duties are fulfilled? I did a post on this once.1 reply 0 retweets 1 like -
Replying to @anomalyuk
@Alrenous@soapjackal@Nick_B_Steves http://anomalyuk.blogspot.com/2007/03/purchasing-intimacy.html … and http://anomalyuk.blogspot.com/2007/03/intimacy-ii.html …2 replies 2 retweets 2 likes -
Replying to @anomalyuk
@soapjackal@Nick_B_Steves the contracts@Alrenous suggests are not for public but just to clarify expectations, so some of that not apt.1 reply 0 retweets 1 like -
Replying to @anomalyuk
@soapjackal@Nick_B_Steves@Alrenous reading customer reviews of middle to high end prostitutes is highly instructive1 reply 0 retweets 1 like -
Replying to @anomalyuk
@anomalyuk That really came out of nowhere and it took time to get through the queue. So: wait, what? This sounds interesting.1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes
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