People who are capable of turning their brains on on command, being super productive on a thing of their choice for an hour, and then switching off & relaxing afterwards. How do you do it. Literally. How. My brain has zero chill and only knows "do nothing" or "DO ALL THE THINGS"
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W odpowiedzi do @annabrandberg
I think those people are just neurotypical. :(
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W odpowiedzi do @MagusFirebeard
Yes and no. I'm aware of how my neurodiversity restricts me, but it's on me to try learn how to work around it to create a lifestyle that is sustainable. And I can try learn tricks both from neurotypicals as well as from other ND ppl who have found ways to make it work for them!
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W odpowiedzi do @annabrandberg
After 30+ years of various coping strategies, I learned I just cannot work how NT people do :/ I just kinda... try to make sure I am doing the most productive thing possible when I get my H Y P E R F O C U S, and tedious/repetitive things when I have the blah brain.
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W odpowiedzi do @MagusFirebeard
What are your tricks for getting into hyperfocus mode then? And how do you deal with the guilt from days when you have blah brain?
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W odpowiedzi do @annabrandberg
Honestly, I just gotta let it flow and structure my work around it. I hyperfocus better when I am relaxed/not under too much stress, and its usually either right before or after blah brain. As for the guilt... I kinda just accepted it as part of myself over years of trying.
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W odpowiedzi do @MagusFirebeard @annabrandberg
the way I figure, my hyperfocus pretty much balances out the blah brain days, so, while my productivity has some pretty big swings, it averages out to pretty good. BUT... in an emergency, I can put on some high beat video game music and help stimulate a little more balanced focus
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W odpowiedzi do @MagusFirebeard @annabrandberg
That is the key thing though. My Hyperfocus is almost always a result of either getting out of blah brain, or heralds it. (My partner, a literal behavioral neuroscientist, says this is fairly normal for those with ADHD)
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W odpowiedzi do @MagusFirebeard
Yeah agreed, totally a direct result. I think my problem is that I haven't accepted my blah brain. I expect myself to constantly deliver and achieve at hyperfocus level, meaning that blah brain days leave me with crippling guilt - simply for not being hyperfocus days.
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W odpowiedzi do @annabrandberg
It may take time for this to happen, I think. Try to remind yourself just how productive you are during hyperfocus, and it is, not to dunk on NT people, generally much more efficient than the average person's productivity. And be kind to yourself! :)
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This is very true. I guess I'm so used to only celebrating what I achieve from hyperfocus periods and actively forgetting my blah days, that I've managed to make over-achieving my new normal. I regularly set such high standards for myself that anything else feels like failure.
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