| MCV Pac. Top 50 Women in Games | ADHD | she/her | 
Think of it like a training exercise. Recognising desired behaviour reinforces & it encourages more of it while slapping down no matter what creates withdrawal & insubordination. It works with dogs and horses but you have to have one that's trainable . Seems to work with men too.
My ex would come looking for praise whenever he'd done laundry or cleaned smth. Apparently I was a bitch when I was unimpressed & told him that yeah, he SHOULD be doing those things, since he's an adult & he also lives here... 
You don't get praise for doing the bare minimum.
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I can totally appreciate this in theory (and I agree, I def didn't slap down on him) but adult men are not comparable to animals here. They're capable of the same intelligent thought process as women. If I, an adult, can figure out our laundry needs to be done, so can he...
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