I'm so tired of being the one stepping aside for oncoming men on the street who don't even seem to acknowledge there's a person walking here. New rule: Time to just not. Let's see how many men get surprised and angry when they bump into me, because I didn't step aside for them.
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Clarification: This isn't just a "manners" thing. Lately I've become so hyper aware of how it seems to almost always be women stepping aside to make space for men. (And, similarly - yet even more so, I see women of colour regularly stepping aside to make space for white people.)
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Anna Brandberg podał/a dalej Kyle Gaddo
Ok so apparently "manslamming" is a THING? I was aware that this was something lots of us dealt with, but I didn't realise JUST how prevalent it was! Women: Challenge for the week is to not step aside. Let me know how many times you get slammed into!

https://twitter.com/kylegaddo/status/1196464007332401153?s=19 …Anna Brandberg dodał/a,
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Yep, now I'm pissed. Today, in the 10 min walk btwn my flat & the metro I passed 6 older men & 4 women. The 2 first men, I forgot & moved aside. The next 2 I remembered but got awkward last minute & moved. The last 2 I got mad, braced myself - AND THEY BOTH BUMPED INTO ME!
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it's a psychological thing, the larger/bigger person is most times the one not moving to the side. so tiny small persons keep dodging the larger ones, wether women or men. We men are just too darn used to not having to move aside... Lack of awareness of our surroundings i assume
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yeah, that's what I meant. thanks for sharing. I think it's not a gender thing in its core, it's just most times the case that bigger guys don't move for smaller women. but the same happens with smaller guys, thanks for pointing that out again @TavorLive
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it's most assuredly a gender thing but may come with some caveats around perceived aggression, social dominance and size. This thread was lovely reminder for something I need to remain more conscious of going forward - how my presence affects others wanderings

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As many tall and/or big women have stated elsewhere in the comments, it definitely is a gendered issue. Size definitely also plays a part in it tho & that sucks that you also have to deal with it @TavorLive. (Another discussion to be had re how they treat heavily tattooed ppl.)
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