Good morning! Let's talk about gaslighting! Gaslighting, one of the most psychologically damaging types of harassment, is when serial abusers present false information or a false narrative to make you doubt your own memory, perceptions, sanity, or professional knowledge.
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Gaslighting is such a constant in my life that whenever I tweet about my own experiences (especially wrt harassment), my mentions are inundated with posts that are purposely meant to make me doubt my motives and especially my own lived reality.
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And it works. I have to regularly check in with my team to be reassured and to check my own sanity because a gaslighter’s goal is to make the target confused and create feelings of self-doubt and uncertainty about their own reality.
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Fuck gaslighting. You aren't crazy.
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You really think they were there to harass you? You're delusional. No doubt you've had harassers, but not everyone who disagrees with you is there to harass you.
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You should watch/listen to some Feminist Frequency Radio,
@carolynmichelle and@ebonyaster disagree with Anita all the time and she's never accused them of harassment. Could it be that you're just being disingenuous? (No need to answer, it's plain to see that you are.) -
Well we're obviously not talking about them. She's accused Sargon of harassing her, when she broke the rules of years convention.
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Let me fix that for you: She correctly identified Carl Benjamin attempting to harass her, turned the tables on him and exposed him for a whiny manbaby he is. But thanks for playing.
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Let me help you. No, they weren't causing a disturbance.
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lol it was obviously a deliberate act of intimidation and disturbance, meant to throw off the target. we know you people are smart enough to understand this, you just won't admit it. if playing dumb is how you want to keep going about this, welp, fine, keep looking dumb.
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Actually no it wasn't. You obviously don't know what hostile acts, or hostile intent means. I've seen more people disturb Ben Shapiro lectures.
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Playing dumb it is!
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No one's buying that nonsense, Anita... we've all seen the same video from Vidcon '17 from multiple angles. You trashed a group of content creators, who are also your critics, just for being in your presence, and you were on a educational platform at the time.
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So is gaslighting when you harass people in the audience of vidcon and proceed to try and convince everyone that in fact, you were the one who was being harassed, by a passive member of the audience.
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But...you did antagonize them. They didn't say anything until you insulted then, they were just sitting there. This isn't me gaslighting, this is me having seen the footage a couple times.
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Do you believe that you have the right to give a public talk without your critics (both male and female) being able to attend and listen politely - and maybe ask questions civilly at the end? Freedom of speech is not freedom from criticism.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwcRc5LuElA …
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So when you call an audience member a "shithead" and a "garbage human" from the stage, is that better or worse? If you had said nothing then nothing would have happened. You've made your bed, now sleep in it.
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Ok lil Annie... Keep telling yourself that it is completely ok to lash out at people in public calling them names when they kept their mouths shut for once. Ffs, you need therapy and some emotional intelligence. You don't just fucking verbally attack ppl based on your feelings.
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You don't attack people based on your fears ok! If they were provoking you from the audience, sure, ok, lash back, but they didn't say shit. THEN bc you FELT attacked by BOOGIE of all people, you fucking barked at him! YOUR reality isn't the only reality that exists!
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When you allow your fears to overcome you and control your behavior, you lose control of yourself & it makes you look emotionally unstable. I get that you've been through shit, but ffs, don't react to shit unless an action has been taken...
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Your ASSUMPTION that all these people are after you is you making your OWN life a living hell! Think about it! You now think everyone is out to get you! Most just disagree and want to make sure you see something they think you're missing!
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The world IS shit, there ARE bad ppl aaaand ppl who don't mean is well, but you have to, for your own sanity, wait for justification. Ppl change and a former threat may want to apologize & say they understand now and you could prevent that!
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