6/ My dad began to pay for out-of-pocket programs, doing whatever was out there that could help her. She spent time living on a farm in MA that cost $11K/month. She got thrown out. He got her into a university’s mental program that cost nearly $20K/month. She got thrown out.
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17/ My dad shot himself in the heart that next afternoon. I still don't know where or how he got the gun. His last words to paramedics were, "I failed my family."
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18/ There is a mental health crisis in this country. The hundreds of thousands, if not millions of dollars my father spent from his savings to help pay for my sister's treatments should never have been spent in the first place.
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19/ Continued cuts to mental health programs & rising healthcare costs have made mental health a bottomless pit of spending.https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2019-05-16/insurance-covers-mental-health-but-good-luck-using-it …
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20/ There is a baby boomer retirement crisis in this country. That generation has less money in savings, higher expenses due to rising healthcare costs, and larger debt than prior generations.https://www.cnbc.com/2018/11/07/one-third-of-baby-boomers-had-nothing-saved-for-retirement-at-age-58-.html …
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21/ My dad had no other options. He didn't want to be a burden. He knew his health would not improve w/out being able to afford care. He knew there would be no job for someone his age and in his declining health. And because of this, he knew he was worth more dead than alive.
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22/ No spouse, no parent should ever have to make this decision - especially in the wealthiest country on the planet. You didn't fail us - we failed you. I miss him with all my heart and wish he was still here. I love you dad.pic.twitter.com/qNSB29wXJi
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You must treasure that night. It was his last gift to you. I grieve for you and your family in your loss.
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Thank you for sharing your story. Your dad sounds like an amazing individual; one who left a lasting impression on all he encountered. I hope that all the good memories rise to the top. Sending light & love to you & your family.
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