Women, I will let you in on a male secret. Men know that constantly self-proclaiming male 'feminists' are often predatory sleaze bags. They are intensely disliked by other men because of their manipulative qualities and not, in general, because they are viewed to be sex traitors.
You're so incel, it's beyond cringe. I hope you've got mental health care professionals to help you in that embassy. And I hope they're male