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Oh no Google. You don’t get to pretend to care about human lives.
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oh, yes, it obviously is. You need to talk about your feelings in order to learn to process them properly. It's basically impossible to do feelings well if you keep them 100% inside your own head.
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Yeah, I was almost certain he didn't. That's why I think he needs one. Norms around physical contact are another way society fucks men up. Do *you* need a hug? One reason difficulty dating is a big deal for men is there's so little non-sexual physical contact in their lives.
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And like the latter's a big deal. It's scary when a man gets into a rage fit because they can't deal with their feelings. It's not wrong to talk about that. But "50% of the human race is being made miserable by trying to suppress their feelings" is pretty bad too.
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Like the "be a man, don't have feelings" shit - it makes men unhappy and it makes men unpredictable and slightly dangerous, because it means they bottle up feelings and don't learn the skipps of working with them, so eventually they snap. Feminists overfocus on the latter.
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Yeah the way feminists talk about this isn't super helpful. There's nothing wrong with being a man, but a lot of the ways we (both men and women do this!!) tell men to behave are bad, and it ends up really messing people up - both the men and the people they interact with.
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Your dad is wrong and needs a hug. Seeing a therapist is like seeing a personal trainer for your feelings. Only an idiot would say seeing a personal trainer is weakness, right? Sure you can do it on your own, but having an expert who can help you and push you is super useful.
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Yeah, that's how cultural norms around masculinity fuck you up. It's a trap! Don't fall for it!
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Emotions are something that really benefits from doing work on them, but everyone is discouraged from doing that (men more than women), and our default scripts around who gets to do what emotionally are basically wrong for everybody.
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It's not so much a guy thing - I'd pretty much recommend the same to a girl who was struggling with dating. Problems are different, but same basic human messed-upness is there.
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It's an obvious first thing to try because most people would benefit from seeing a therapist so even if it doesn't work you're better off, and because many of the big problems in dating are your (generic you!) own anxiety and difficulty relating, and therapy helps with that.
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Definitely not saying that anyone has to get a therapist to be ready for dating, but getting a therapist is good, and if you're having trouble with dating that is one of the things that therapy can help with.
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Nah, everyone's a bit crazy. Emotions are hard work, and we're all constantly fucking it up without meaning to. Most people are just wandering around as little bundles of anxiety all the time and it messes up our ability to relate to others.
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Though TBH "get a therapist" is probably a pretty good answer for most people who are struggling with this. I mean this sincerely and with no hint of an insult intended. Emotions are hard and getting help sorting your own out will get you a long way towards working with others'.
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And by self-development I don't mean moneymaxxing and roidmaxxing, I mean, well, getting the Mind out of the way of the Being Crying, dancing, meditation, psylocibin, therapy, introspection, telling your mother what you think about her Idk, there's something blocked somewhere
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The answer is like 95 % self-development and 5 % conversation skills (not "saying things to make her sleep with me", but "finding a way for us both to drop the fucking masks together and create a genuine connection to the Being on the other side, if only for a moment")
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This is how I look back at my childhood potential.https://twitter.com/historylvrsclub/status/1220918686015479808 …
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Barely Half Your Age Plus Seven Sluts
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shout out to the hard work of all the egirls and simps who make this possible day after day
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