being overly friendly can be detrimental to making new connections b/c of the sudden increase of intimacy expectations past a threshold it's like when strong magnets have to kept apart otherwise they snap together dangerously. or a "friendly" dog w/o good bite control
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sometimes relationships with a clear time boundary and protocol can have sudden spikes of intimacy e.g. w/ a cab driver in a foreign country https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/03/26/the-tragedy-of-wiios-law/#:~:text=The%20game%2Dbreak%20is%20to,connection%2C%20shared%20meaning%20and%20resonance ….
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it's not possible to create a "tiered" system of intimacy either b/c intimacy is absence of protocol. maintaining the tiers requires constant upkeep these systems are successful only by achieving pseudo-intimacy across the board
5:33 PM - 1 Jul 2021
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