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in personal finance this seems to manifest as an obsession with increasing passive income and reducing passive drains like starbucks coffee

just like with sports, this initial thought that comes up is often not the actual “secret” but a sort of distracting thought that’s only useful as something actionable and legible

the “secret” is that there is no one secret. a good forehand (in w/e sport) is a result of many many movements. the specific thought that comes up often acts like a statue or painting in a home. it is a focal point like a capstone but not the bulk of the support

not-buying-starbucks and similar is a focal point for the feeling of self-denial which does help compounding but even with this, the self denial can be a red herring for what the “real” trick was. e.g. leveraging with real estate, unexpectedly great at social media, etc..

it’s very difficult to tease out why exactly anyone (inc self) is successful at something. ask every harvard student how they got in and they’ll say “studied hard” as if no one else did that ask an artist/musician/etc.. and it’s “follow passion”

part of this is inability to condense a unique life story some of it lack of understanding (e.g. leveraging for real estate and lucky bc economic cycle) sometimes it’s also intentional misdirection since “steroids, adderall, and sleep with harvey weinstein” sounds weird

the specific thing someone appears to be successful at also often is just the nearest socially accepted label for what the individual really is good at

“rhythm sense and hand eye motor coordination gooder” isn’t an actual job or identity but tennis player, pianist, starcraft pro, etc… are