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when the hooman female says "this aspect of life is suffering" the hooman male hears 2 different based on level of attraction. if attracted he hears "save me o my brave and valiant knight!" if not he hears "naggy nag nag naggy complain nag nag"

the attraction -> non-attraction stage is quite interesting as this is the transition point where the male hears something different despite the female simply doing the same thing she has done since the beginning of their relationship, pointing out life's suffering

intuitively the female knows that when the male treats her as a nag, that he has lost attraction for her for her own pride however, she will often choose to interpret this instead as the male having lost his knightliness and virility instead

each side thus attacks the other for fading from their once prominent display as aspects of the masculine and the feminine