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e.g. sacrificing “i feel frustrated/angry” feelings for “we doing that thing together was better than anything we could have individually done alone.”

vs an incorrectly contracted relationship where “we feel frustrated during arguments” but “i feel great during sex” the together feelings feel bad but they are accepted b/c they amplify the “i feel” feelings

imo this is why redpill and post-redpill relationships seem somewhat strange to me. they revolve around the high sexual polarization and the good feelings that come from domination and submission. Big Boy Alpha Man and Beautiful Sacred Definitely Not Narcissist Goddess

redpill is about hacking surface level dominance signals while post-redpill tries to live up to them. they end up recreating traditional values while marketing as a new discovery of a long lost ancient secret of manliness/femininity

notice how this is the same dynamic of the foot all quarterback back and the cheerleader. they are highly polarized representations of masculine/feminine but they both act as examples to be SEEN by others. their relationship amplifies their personal radiance as masculine/feminine