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note that what they have in common is now measurability since things like suffering are subjective. no, what they have in common is that they maximize Real. a power man manspreads. a vulnerable suffering pity case reveals tmi. a famous person shows gives a tour of their house.

each individual takes the side that allows them to scream out their existence at the maximum volume. even those who on paths that have entire tomes of literature on ephemerality of identity and self. "this is my REAL name." "i've found my TRUE path." "everything else is a LIE"

an "Identity Trap" is that which gives you the illusion of being More Real than someone else and thus a sense of superiority.

e.g. "i've revealed more vulnerable info about myself on this social media site where i use a portrait pic under perfect lighting at the perfect angle doing sth sexy & cool, always saying the right things, etc..." most ppl prolly wouldn't recognize the hooman in real life!

an "Identity Trap" is so named because like all traps, it LIMITS some form of freedom. every action is filtered first through "does this make sense for this identity, who has attributes X, Y, Z and is part of in-groups A, B, C and believes in 1,2,3"

every action is first measured against whether or not it affirms or erodes the identity that took so much energy to build. this isn't necessarily bad. like Mecha Suits, powerful identities have powerful effects.

but because there is a layer that intermediates between self and reality by adding layers of moralistic judgement, it creates friction that jams up any activity that requires Flow. life gradually ends up consisting only of activities that don't require flow, like spreadsheets.

egoic identities generate power in "reality" while your degree of "non-identity" (if that makes sense) measures your power in the "spirit world"https://twitter.com/a_yawning_cat/status/1349454312724783104 …