There are 2 red flags indicative of immaturity. The first is "begrudging" respect. It involves a "One day I will be the alpha dog." drive. The second is a belief that immaturity is Bad even though by definition it is maximum growth. (Maturity implies CESSATION of growth.)
Interestingly enough, the toxic archetype is "Immaturity that assumes Maturity" while the virtuous archetype is "Immaturity that accepts Immaturity." b/c constant growth. NOTHING actually changes except mindset. All the inaptitudes of immaturity still exist post-mindshift.
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"Constant Growth" requires the ability to internalize "You will NEVERRRRRR be good enough for Her/God/Cthulhu/Cats" without fear or threatened self-confidence.
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Note that there IS something potentially toxic about this Permanent immaturity. It isn't a good fit for the dream of a Stable Family. This is the Casanova Paradox. The "Oh he's such a BAD boy." vs "Oh he's such a baaaaad boy." difference.
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Mix this all together and you get: Immaturity is not understanding the fence Maturity is understanding the fence Immaturity is going beyond the fence. Maturity is going back behind the fence. Then...you can expand/fix/destroy the fence.
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that's when the concept of maturity/immaturity no longer makes sense since the idea of an End State that is perfectly static and devoid of change/growth is impossible to conceive. Individual species have mature states but evolution as a whole does not. red queen and so on.
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