Combined, this leads to a stance of "I am already good enough." which is often a knee-jerk defensive stance to broken confidence or lack of a strong authority figure that Believes In You. Such broken hearts are not ready for God's Reality which is "You will never be good enough"
There are 2 red flags indicative of immaturity. The first is "begrudging" respect. It involves a "One day I will be the alpha dog." drive. The second is a belief that immaturity is Bad even though by definition it is maximum growth. (Maturity implies CESSATION of growth.)
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A toxic manifestation of this is the Wifebeater archetype. "Lol this nagging bitch who is always complaining, *SMACK*"https://twitter.com/a_yawning_cat/status/1326588339667922944 …
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Interestingly enough, the toxic archetype is "Immaturity that assumes Maturity" while the virtuous archetype is "Immaturity that accepts Immaturity." b/c constant growth. NOTHING actually changes except mindset. All the inaptitudes of immaturity still exist post-mindshift.
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"Constant Growth" requires the ability to internalize "You will NEVERRRRRR be good enough for Her/God/Cthulhu/Cats" without fear or threatened self-confidence.
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Note that there IS something potentially toxic about this Permanent immaturity. It isn't a good fit for the dream of a Stable Family. This is the Casanova Paradox. The "Oh he's such a BAD boy." vs "Oh he's such a baaaaad boy." difference.
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Mix this all together and you get: Immaturity is not understanding the fence Maturity is understanding the fence Immaturity is going beyond the fence. Maturity is going back behind the fence. Then...you can expand/fix/destroy the fence.
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that's when the concept of maturity/immaturity no longer makes sense since the idea of an End State that is perfectly static and devoid of change/growth is impossible to conceive. Individual species have mature states but evolution as a whole does not. red queen and so on.
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