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    1.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

       🐈 Retweeted Mikael

      IMO monogamy is about reaching a point in a relationship where you are comfortable BEING with "Other" in silence. This is a stepping stone to being comfortable just "Being" with yourself in silence instead of constantly having to "do something."https://twitter.com/mikael_jibril/status/1347616578066591746 …

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      Mikael @mikael_jibril
      Monogamy involves the entirety of our being to resonate with the other, which is a very specific, very fullfilling and especially very accurate phenomena like two tips of needles touching each other — It is a concentration of presence that is rarely to be found these days.
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       🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

      Polyamory would be the next step where people "spread" this self-silence capability. Each relationship leaves both parties well off and then moves on.

      11:59 AM - 8 Jan 2021
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        2.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

          The purpose of dedicated monogamy is to reach this point where there is nothing left to know of the other or be known of the self. Monogamy forces you to confront this existential "boredom" with the "World", with "Other"

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        3.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

          So polyamory itself is neutral. It can be virtuous or non-virtuous(when used as constant distraction/hedonism). IMO It's an "advanced" form of relationship that shouldn't be undertaken unless you can point to at least ONE "successful" relationship.

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        4.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

          E.g. if you have an enlightened relationship with Self by all means become a polyamorous sex guru in the desert. the problem of course is that you become the relationship bottleneck and all the followers start practicing destructive polyamory while waiting in line.

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        5.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

          So while the top of the hierarchy is virtuous the majority of is not. But b/c the hierarchy claims polyamory as a virtue rather than "Virtuous if X, Y, Z" the followers are confused and just try their best. b/c they are trying sth too advanced they fuck up. (literally)

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        6.  🐈‏ @a_yawning_cat Jan 8

          that's b/c monogamy involves a form of throwing away the key and figuring out how to "escape your chains". Without this commitment of faith and burning the bridge. there's no way you'll have the focus to move forwards b/c you'll always be looking back.

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