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This willingness to be alone is the greatest sacrifice the feminine due to the effect of social ostracization on the feminine. It's much easier for masculine energy to not give a fuck about anyone and everything. (including self)

Thus the Hero's story is about the masculine becoming the feminine and the heroine's journey is about the feminine becoming masculine. An endless yin-yang spiral as each energy learns about its opposite.

What makes the Female Hero and the Male Heroine stories feel "strange" is that they spiral in the opposite direction. It feels weird that the feminine needs to actively try to learn about agreeableness and the masculine needs to train to be dis-agreeable.

E.g. following WWI you can say Germany was demasculated and started a new war as overcompensation. This was possible because that very demasculation produced massive obedient energy out of normally disagreeable men.

You can also say that onlyFans defeminizes women even as it gives them a path to financial independence. Like a society where every woman > 18 has an onlyFans account. (Cat no skin in dis game. I is just presenting thought experiment to ur feelings.)

The purpose of clarifying these roles into: Male Hero, Male Heroine, Female Hero, Female Heroine is that it enables more sophisticated analysis of whether or not the situation needs more yin, or needs more yang.

E.g. a common problem in tech is too much yang sausage. But the solution of adding in Female Hero's only *adds* to the yang energy and makes things worse. Conflict can increase when the purpose was to decrease it.