"In spite of the fact that I deliver my most effective performance when I permit the spontaneous Self 2 to be in control, there is still a recurring impulse to think about how I did it, make a formula out of it and bring it into Self 1’s domain where it can feel in control."
"*Only by competing with you does he in fact cooperate! No one wants to stand around on the court waiting for the big wave" "true competition is identical with true cooperation"
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"If I assume that I am making myself more worthy of respect by winning, then I must believe that by defeating someone, I am making him less worthy of respect. I can’t go up without pushing someone else down. This belief involves us in a needless sense of guilt."
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"As far as I’m concerned, this is Self 1 trying to make a better Self 1. The dog chases its own tail. "
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