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J: No there isn't. Everything just IS. "I" at most is a label that tries to stick to everything. E: Cool you're getting it. J: Wait wtf. Is this all? I have a whole library of books and have been meditating for 25 yrs just for this? This has gotta be a joke.

J: God I feel stupid. Fuck Adyashanti, what a stupid name. Fuck Jed McKenna, why did he need 3 books for this. "THIS is NOT what you want." Now I get it. All this time I've wasted. E: Quite a small truth isn't it? Take some time off and let it deepen.

J: Back from vacation. God enlightenment is such a dumb word. "Annihilated" is better. Still can't believe McKenna wrote 3 books when 3 words "I Don't Exist" would've sufficed. *Bound by seeker/hunter mindset & rube goldberg trap trying to catch Unicorn.

5/ Eric(E) E: Life just IS. How can there be a "me". What am I missing? Something isn't releasing. Yet how can something that doesn't exist release? Am real tired of this shit. I: It's like finding out Santa doesn't exist. Nothing changes, only the illusion falls.

E: I see, nothing changes, yet once Santa is seen as an illusion it cannot be unseen. I get it now. I: What was the push? E: I dunno, a bunch of stuff. I: Neato. *Bound by trying to solve a paradox.

6/ Michael(M) M: I've been practicing Zen/Vipassana for 40 yrs. Multiple retreats, etc.. "I" never permanently dissolves. Feel so inadequate seeing all your new students break through so fast. Help? E: Ok, let's start. What r you really searching for?

M: No suffering. To stop floating away from the present moment. The seeking is to stop the damn seeking. Sometimes feel like I'm trying to be a Good Boy. The Best Dharma Student. E: Yeah I can relate. Focus, everything just IS correct? Rain doesn't require doer yes?

M: Yeah yeah I get all this. Side question. I have a 6-week Vipassana retreat soon, should I still go? I don't see how more seeking is gonna solve the seeking problem. E: ur trying too hard to "believe" something. trying to the right belief, at the right strength, etc...

E: Long term seekers like u and I have whole structures around seeking. Never ends. Constant low grade dissatisfaction. Then we hate some young folk to protect our 40 yrs of seeking. Not fair right? Still, it stirs the fire. 6 weeks? Stop. Let's end this in 10 seconds.

M: icic, was just listening to Eckhart Tolle.. E: Yo, stop spamming your mind w/ different teachers when working w/ me. You can't zap yourself into the state. Focus. One thing at a time. Where is "you"?

M: *blah blah blah equanimity stuff* E: Stop it. You're trying to 'fake it' until it 'catches'. You've been ploughing this furrow for 40 yrs, you're not gonna do it by doing the same thing but harder.

E: Snap out of it and look. Be able to explain it to a 10 yr old. Drop the vocabulary and the convention. Use your own words. Your habitual spiritual language is part of your cage. M: I feel so bad. Some part of me was hoping to get your validation.

E: WHO is feeling inadequate? WHO is feeling frustrated? Can "you" stop the feelings? Can you stop the thoughts? I'm not judging you. There isn't a whole curriculum here like Vipassana. Just one step. M: Hmm.. I feel so light this morning. Something changed.

E: Tell me more to make sure. Where is "I"? M: Self reference feels weird. Get to c life instead of Me doing. "I" still sometimes solidifies, but dissolves quickly. E: Sweet, you got it. *Bound by trying to literally write a peaceful neverending story. (stories have conflict)

7/ Joao(J) J: I only intellectually understand "no self". I can't find it, I wonder where thoughts come from, who is controlling this body, etc.. yet still I sense "self" I: Rant a bit plz, I need to know more about where ur at.

J: Everything is real, this body is real, these thoughts are real, only the idea that there’s a “me” creating all this is an illusion. “I” posed questions to “myself” that destroy the possibility of the existence of a self. “I” started to see it. I was not controlling anything."

J: But I still have doubts. omg there is always a feeling of a “me” watching everything, but “I” know that’s impossible. Really frustrated.

I: The frustration is a distraction. Fear is still protecting the idea that a self is needed to keep everything under control. You see that there is no watcher right? J: yep I: Free will? J: doesn't exist. I: hmm.. seems like ur through. What was the last push?

J: "I" am not sure if "I" am done b/c "I" was waiting for a major change. But now I see it's the dropping of an old belief. Nothing changes, just the perspective is different.

J: Last push was when I recognized fear & frustration as protection mechanisms. Q for u. Why do I still feel like I make decisions? I: The labelling & mind discussion still goes on but the decision is effortless. When heart aligns, the mind rabble stops.

J: Ok, ty I: yw. *Bound by waiting for the Big Thing.

8/ Charles(C) C: I do lots of Vipassana. Trying to understand Advaita. Intellectually I accept no self. I don't feel liberated though. Why? E: Ok, no books or websites no matter how profound. Don't believe me. Tell ur truth exactly. First: how does "no-self" make u feel?

C: I agree w/ it. But it's an intellectual agreement. I see that no one is driving the car but I still feel like I'm driving the car. E: Take Spiderman. The stories, films, drawings, etc.. of him are all real. But the actual Spiderman isn't. Self is like Spiderman.

C: I understand that. I really don't believe in self. I can't even find it. But still I behave as if self were there, so it's still there. When I look, I can't find it. E: Ur still trying to believe ur way there. You gotta SEE. Try this. Where does ur belief come from?

C: Lots of different experiences coming to the same conclusion. I just can't help feeling "me" despite *knowing* there isn't a me. I'm stuck in a paradox. E: You need to really find out. Not be picking the one you feel is more profound and try to convince urself of it.

C: Typing now, the body is here, the keyboard and the screen are here, the action of typing is taking place, and thoughts and more thoughts… E: Now look for "sense of self".

C: It's strongest when thinking about needs & desires. E.g. work & money. Fear about not being able to earn a livelihood.. A realisation: Work will go much better if “I” gets out of the way. E: plz stop trying to analyze ur way free. shut down ur story making functions.

C: so frustrating. what do I specifically do? I wish I could climb 20 mountains and get this over with. E: i's not about climbing 20 mountains, just one step. The idea that it's hard is appealing to the self who wants to be special, more spiritual, more hardcore, etc..

E: In Vipassana there's a nice linear structure. This isn't that. Don't look to me for a set of instructions. This is pointing, but the finger is not instruction. Do not calculate like chess "Oh she means this ... or that..."

C: k so I started questioning my wants from enlightenment: freedom from self-badness, no more work, everlasting solution to all problems, be revered, very special no one else should get it. basically I want to exchange my broken Self for Super Self. sounds so stupid now...