Are other people actually able to come to terms with death or is it just compartmentalization?https://twitter.com/dschorno/status/1324856788936663041 …
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The part that loved what died has to die as well. That’s what *really* is mourned. To love something is to create a mutual death pact.
e.g. instead of the son hating the father for dying (and generating internal guilt) he lets the “child” inside die b/c that child was kept alive by the idea of a living father.
