Most people growing up in China internalize the message that if China is not strong economically and militarily, it will just be bullied just like it was before.
This aversion to weak men is in conflict w/ love for their fathers whose methods of protection are “wear a sweater, don’t date till your 30, get a phd, become a doctor, etc...” (basically raising daughters as sons by repressing the feminine)
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The downside to hyper pragmatism is that is ignores gender differences. The balance of yin/yang energies is important not because it generates survival fuel but b/c it generates meaning fuel.
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Without meaning fuel, the only way to cope with the existential void is to pass it on to your child.https://images.app.goo.gl/hFjMxUykwi2Ld1aFA …
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Having a child ‘just because’ becomes something extremely important. (And as a side effect, inability to channel the void into newness manifests as being less creative)
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Ending side thread with a thought that just popped up. ”all shadow cope is sexual cope.”
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