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As an example of why it's difficult, take the recent controversial show Cuties. It is not actual reality, being a movie and all but it's "close" to reality. E.g. the girls had to learn a dance taught to them by the show producers.

So for many people, there's the idea of "This shouldn't have happened." which feels righteous and judgmental. Yet its effect on reality is yet to be seen. Everyone is only "imagining" all the hidden pedophiles hiding in our communities suddenly feeling empowered.

Theoretically the film producers might be people who believe in the inner goodness of humanity. Perhaps they recognize evil in the world but also recognize the conquering of evil that also happens day in and day out in the world.

Perhaps they are too out of touch? Maybe they live such siloed sheltered lives that they don't consider their actions on the world. "My neighborhood has TONS of pedos, you can't show that kind of information here!"

I dunno. It's just an example of how Something happens in Reality and we just have to accept it and react to what it results in. E.g. we have to react to Reality not to our Imaginations. This is hard because ALL WE HAVE is our imaginations.

So that's one way you can get lost. You want to fight for something. The children. The country. The women. The environment. The company. Something. Anything

One way to shortcut this maze of illusion is to completely purify the competitive winner/loser duality from your mind. You have to literally feel no joy from winning and no shame from losing. This is a sign that you've escaped the game.