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It's the process of building a staircase to heaven that we're in love of. Not heaven itself. We should rejoice...because heaven is infinite. We will build this staircase forever!

Not so to those who misinterpreted love as heaven itself rather than the process of ascending heaven. Lonely people are trying to get into heaven. They've climbed some stupid mountain and art knocking outside god's cabin, asking to be left it.

They've left their friends behind in order to reach a state of happiness that requires you not to leave your friends behind. Talk about dog chasing the tail...

The thing is though... there is "another side". A side on which everyone can be friends. A side on which everyone is a victim. This is the realizing that everyone is a victim of death.

You don't have to become a software billionaire, olympian, or nobel prize winner to realize this. a janitor, waitress, and 8 year child can all potentially realize this fully at any moment.

When you realize that you're the ultimate victim, you can be friends with almost anyone. You realize that everyone fears death. You talk to the king the same you talk to your parents the same you talk to your friends the same you talk to your kids.

That's what "Being who you are" is. You're the same in every interaction. You no longer need a mask just like the former dog fighting pitbull no longer needs a muzzle.

You wrestle with the rabid wild bull because you love it. You are risking your life to pull the spear out of it because you realize that that angry writhing bleeding mass is your heart.