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Even for more complex polyarmorous relationships with different gender identities the core isea is the same. Is the yin-yang balanced?

An individual who is able to change from a yin role a yang role with equal potency in both is an infinite source of love because it can adapt to any situation.

Traditionally this is not possible for single individuals (or at least, very hard to do so). But just like a company can do things no single individual can so too can a family.

The traditiona nuclear family is an infinite source of love precisely because it can alternative between yin and yang as necessary. Most families obviously don’t have this balanced.

In some, despite equal yin and yang energy it can feel like one half of you is being burned alive and the other half is freezing and alone. The result is whole soul numbness.

In others, the energies arise only to cancel each other out making the family unit feel like a a dessert.

A “traditional” family has a higher probability to get the love formula right just like following the directions to the letter helps you bake a cake correctly.

No room for creative expression yes. But why mess with such an important recipe?