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Vice versa, when someone is struggling to love themselves it’s helping them overcome their limits that helps them accept themselves.

A yin-yin dysfunction is when two people are trying to love themselves as they are. They stagnate and float apart or rip each other to shreds in a zero sum game for love.

A yang-yang dysfunction is like a band of soldiers. It eventually faces a dragon it can’t fight.

Even for more complex polyarmorous relationships with different gender identities the core isea is the same. Is the yin-yang balanced?

An individual who is able to change from a yin role a yang role with equal potency in both is an infinite source of love because it can adapt to any situation.

Traditionally this is not possible for single individuals (or at least, very hard to do so). But just like a company can do things no single individual can so too can a family.

The traditiona nuclear family is an infinite source of love precisely because it can alternative between yin and yang as necessary. Most families obviously don’t have this balanced.

In some, despite equal yin and yang energy it can feel like one half of you is being burned alive and the other half is freezing and alone. The result is whole soul numbness.