Giving men bounded responsibility is how you sustain civilization. Leaving young men to form gangs/comitatus is a reversion to the barbarian way of living. OK for steppe nomads, not so good for agriculturists and city-dwellers. https://twitter.com/egg_report/status/1275600627629019136 …
What screws up the value compass for both sexes is when powerful men refuse to take up the father role for the sake of more sex for themselves. They teach women to value money and status (themselves) rather than other virtues and that affects the downstream value hierarchy.