1,000,000% this. If a senior engineer can’t explain it to you in a way you understand - even if you are a lot less experienced - that’s THEIR deficiency. Not yours. When this happens, it means THEY actually don’t understand it well enough.https://twitter.com/noahsussman/status/1170870234066165760 …
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There’s just a spectrum of people and they might all be seniors and they will all learn from each other either way. Socially awkward or not, but being able to explain yourself is whole another skillset someone can bring to the table VS the raw knowledge.
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Purposely trying to overwhelm a junior developer, just to show-off how much you know is a douchebag move though. Those people are just afraid of a possible knowledge gap, while acknowledging that you don’t know x as a senior dev doesn’t make you worth less, it makes you human.
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Fwiw I've had mentors at work who were so socially awkward they had to take regular leave time for panic attacks. I don't think having bad social skills precludes being a good mentor.
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There are other ways to explain than in-person. I’ve worked with senior devs who preferred to write things down, some who liked slack convos, some who liked drawing diagrams, & one who maintained an amazing test suite that served as executable docs. But SOMEHOW, they must teach.
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Yeah. No one would characterize me as highly socially proficient, and most of the mentoring I have done was over DM or slack. Same for the mentoring I've received.
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re: "Some people have troubles expressing themselves by default." better communication can be learned! i promise :}
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True, I never stated otherwise.
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Connecting with other people is a skill, like any other. It comes with learning and practice, and unlike a lot of tech skills, it retains its value forever. I was awful at it when I started, and much less awful now.
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