Now that my comments are a hot mess, this is one of my favorite pieces about "preferences" in the dating context. It's addressed to gay men, but the takeaway is applicable to everyone. LOVE IT. Do read if you are one of the "it's just a preference" folks.https://www.them.us/story/racism-is-not-a-preference …
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It’s hard for me to say personally cause everyone has their reasons. I feel most people date others based on ideal lifestyle similarities, which can objectify but that’s just my own hot take Def dated girls that only date black dudes tho so I feel what you mean.
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For sure. it depends on the two parties involved too. The dynamics and thus my initial tweet would change depending if it’s: white guy asian girl vs asian guy asian girl. I was def alluding to one demographic but don’t think twitter could handle it. My asian gals prob know tho :p
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Lol at all the Asian lady homies responding saying “I feel you” while a bunch of defensive dudes in my mentions think the takeaway is: “Preferences aren’t allowed!”
Learn to read. Learn to understand nuance. Learn to listen to the women who evidently relate.
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If you mainly date one race, that would make it a preference. It's a little rude to assume a more extreme reason. Which I suppose is why in this hypothetical you're asking for an answer, but it seems harsh.
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Someone who’s never been objectified based on how they look would say that^
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TY for understanding and actually READING HOLY SHIT
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RIP Lil Cause of death: Twitter Egg replies
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bless advanced notification settings :p also dis ain’t shit compared to when I tweeted about feminism in Smash five years ago
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