DMs are down but the TL isn’t. (only posting things I’d already discuss with them publicly)
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Replying to @_StevenFan
The magic happens in the DMs

Fairly often, between group chats and mutuals1 reply 0 retweets 3 likes -
Replying to @TurtlingB
ahh there's whole other levels of game to this. not used to talking to ppl on dms. A few cool souls have reached out tho.
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
feel like i have trouble keeping up a conversation :p
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Replying to @_StevenFan
A conversation takes two!
Also enjoying when DMs move to video calls. Has anything stood out about those preceding conversations over others?1 reply 0 retweets 2 likes -
Replying to @TurtlingB
mutual interest, maybe 'extreme interest' from my side (relatively speaking), also it was
@warmbott I spoke to who is very welcoming, warm, and approachable1 reply 0 retweets 4 likes -
Replying to @_StevenFan @warmbott
🐢 Turtle is. Retweeted 🐢 Turtle is.
Ah, this brings a smile to my face.
@warmbott conversations are always energizing. Agree that the vibe is warm and approachable. What would starting every DM conversation with that energy look like to you? https://twitter.com/turtlingb/status/1226242064410542081?s=21 …https://twitter.com/TurtlingB/status/1226242064410542081 …🐢 Turtle is. added,
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Replying to @TurtlingB @warmbott
Just a strong statement of curious friendly intent, like we have this in common! And I want to know about your experience!
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
do you find yourself initiating this or do you wait for intent to be expressed? thank you both for the kind words. i hold the same impression of you both. :)
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waiting for it mostly. feels rude somehow to ask for it
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
how would you articulate the underlying assumption that leads you to believe it'd be rude to ask for it?
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Replying to @warmbott @TurtlingB
it's so easy to see where all this comes from once I get asked about it and reexpose strata of mind which is making the quick decision: it's more childhood emotional neglect carryover, very quiet dad, hard to ask him things
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