how much are people in dms anyway?
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Replying to @_StevenFan
The magic happens in the DMs

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Replying to @TurtlingB
ahh there's whole other levels of game to this. not used to talking to ppl on dms. A few cool souls have reached out tho.
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Replying to @_StevenFan
*Sliding into your DMs when they start working again*pic.twitter.com/rTQ0Odrgkk
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
makes me realize there must be some habit-behavior-emotional-stance that keeps this being the case
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Replying to @TurtlingB
Just the contrast made me reevaluate norms. A fear I def have is that I'm not interesting enough but I know it to be the case that being interested works better for relationships. Probably the easiest way to fix this is DM people! It's weird the habits we carry around.
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Replying to @_StevenFan
Hmmm, what if interestingness is something you create with them?
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Replying to @TurtlingB
I know it's the case. I think there is an ironic process at play where by being critical of my interestingness I am disposing myself to be critical of others interestingness.
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I'm also okay with this. Another page in accepting my monstrosity-sublimity-ordinariness is leaning into the ways I want to be. I def am drawn to people who can teach me things.
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
Im Always seeking in a way, relentlessly really. I think that could be intense and maybe alienating of self and others. I'm sure it has a smell.
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Replying to @_StevenFan
What would a relationship look like where you met them as an equal? And added as much to the conversation as them?
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