DMs are down but the TL isn’t. (only posting things I’d already discuss with them publicly)
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Replying to @_StevenFan
The magic happens in the DMs

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Replying to @TurtlingB
ahh there's whole other levels of game to this. not used to talking to ppl on dms. A few cool souls have reached out tho.
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Replying to @_StevenFan
*Sliding into your DMs when they start working again*pic.twitter.com/rTQ0Odrgkk
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Replying to @_StevenFan @TurtlingB
makes me realize there must be some habit-behavior-emotional-stance that keeps this being the case
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Replying to @TurtlingB
Just the contrast made me reevaluate norms. A fear I def have is that I'm not interesting enough but I know it to be the case that being interested works better for relationships. Probably the easiest way to fix this is DM people! It's weird the habits we carry around.
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I def have issues approaching people. Trying to figure put some tricks around that. I do fine once I get there. Practice probably because at this point I'm not scared. Ive just had these patterns for decades based on emotional baggage from childhood.
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