Highly ratioed tweet, mainly by young post-rats without kids. Funny how they encourage venting, but only on their approved pet topicshttps://twitter.com/cognazor/status/1246778716954529793 …
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Replying to @cognazor
I mean the OP reads as you choosing FOR other people which topics they're allowed to vent on. People don't tend to respond positively to that, regardless of topic. (See also: privilege/appropriation arguments, etc)
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Replying to @cognazor @AndJohnsonAnd
how many lvls of meta-venting can we reach tho??
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Steven Fan Retweeted Steven Fan
Throwing my hat into the ringhttps://mobile.twitter.com/_StevenFan/status/1246890197851103232 …
Steven Fan added,
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Not all of it is dumb. Sometimes you need some tension and a few elbows to clear space for constructive interaction, otherwise the passive aggressiveness will not end.
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Yes, and a lot of it will be dumb in the way soap operas are dumb. I cringe away when people choose to blow something up with poor communication, reactiviy, semantic disagreements, uncharitable interpretation, not asking questions...
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Replying to @_StevenFan @cognazor and
But perhaps I'm underrating this kind of conflict. Maybe there is some energy necessary to engage certain folk that are not of my same energy, generally adverse to passionate conflict myself.
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Replying to @_StevenFan @cognazor and
I find I can get by without it 100% of the time, but theres also some choosing of battles for sure.
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Some of my closest mutuals are people that I have beefed with in the past, take that as you will
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To be clear not excluding beef. Just rotten beef. Not that that's what happened there but it was a lil smelly. Probably a cultural thing like liking kiviak or limburger.
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