Don't be above complaining/talking shit. It makes space for taking perspective on circumstances you are embedded in, providing reflection and a path to behavior change, when you know what should be changed.
(With caveats
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On a spectrum of behavior, if you bias towards, [watching, assimilating, enduring, shouldering responsibility, taking blame] over, [ interacting / voice, asserting identity, leaving, identifying what/who is accountable ] learning to complain/assert, will benefit you and others.


"Nasty little Buddhist"
Seeking via neuroscience and psychology informed dharma.