@YNB I think it's FOMO. They don't want to be left out of connecting with ANYTHING like others do.
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@pookiener But they aren't connecting. They're minimizing. Not the same. And not cool. -
@YNB Totally agree w/you on that.
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@YNB Some ppl need to find ways to make everything about them, regardless of the lessons and values other people's stories have. Their loss. -
@YNB There are always the one-uppers...the ones who feel the need to make your experiences lesser. You always remain so classy. :) -
@YNB It's a form of defensiveness, IMO. Men do it to women, whites do it to blacks, they don't want to be responsible or make amends. -
@YNB People tend to think that the more time passed since a tragedy, the less we should feel about its effects on us, til it's THEIR tragedy -
@YNB It's a sign of low EQ, Emotional-Intelligence Quotient. They wanna provide perspective, but need to let us grieve OUR pain in OUR time. -
@YNB I dont understand it. It upsets me, seriously why does everyone have to have a story, because we want to remember anothers? -
@YNB If you figure it out, let a sistah know

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@YNB Uuugh! It's one the worst "one up" on you positions anyone can take when minimize someone else's pain. Just stop! Smh -
@YNB YOU ARE SO RIGHT NICOLE
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