#whyididntreport because at the age of 12 when you ask your “friends” what they’d do if hypothetically an elderly woman gropes them and jerks them off in a toy store as they stand their frozen in fear.... and they laugh in response...
This is a really common response, especially as children. Becoming petrified, unable to move and respond is normal. And sadly many victims blame themselves, thinking "why didn't I fight back?" the truth is it's an instinct, it overrides your prefrontal cortex.
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Victims don't choose to respond in that way. But the perpetrator DID choose to abuse them. It's so important not to blame the victim, especially a child. You were not to blame, I'm so sorry this happened to you and I admire you for speaking out. <3
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thank you for your kind words. I have found my peace and voice in life and yet, this is one thing that even my family did not know and some still do not. Now I am in the MH field as a professional looking to hold space. I am honored to be in space with your supportThanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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You rock and keep advocating. Let your light shine. If someone like you had been there 23 years ago to say those words- it would have save those harmed by my pain. that pain is what fuels the healing and the space I hold for others now. It impacts more than just the survivor
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Sexual assault/offenses. And the trauma responses associated with it.
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