I find this can be helpfully reduced to learning to speak honestly.
It's not so much about saying NO or YES, as knowing when you want to say either.
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(And that is indeed a self-reinforcing process, where one implies the other.)
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Extremely fair point. I didn't think of that.
When you know, it's easy to follow.
When you don't... yeah.