Sane interpretation of no-self: the self is an illusion, so I don't have to believe thoughts derived from having one.
Real-world interpretation of no-self: the self is an illusion, so if you use personal pronouns or have personal preferences, this means you are not awakened.
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I see how you can have serious doubts about energy bodies and Jiva Mutki (I mean, I do...), but nondual awareness and witnessing are not so different from other more-or-less permanent changes in perspective. Those are mundane & dirt common.
Unless Nick parsed as all four at once
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... in which case I'd agree, that would be quite fucking rare. If for no other reason than that there are contradictory overlaps between some of them.

