What I'm struggling with here, is that it seems especially hard not just to get people to abandon stories (bad, for reasons I'll touch on),-
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- but that getting any traction at all in changing the thrust of those stories is nigh-impossible, even with empathy & opportunity.
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Storytelling is inextricably linked with survival. Without a story to tell, people die. No meaning -> no reason to live.
No conflict there.
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So we need stories and I'm not saying we should get rid of those, just so we're clear. I don't think that's desirable.
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there's a point at which it may desirable to ditch all. But 99.99% aren't there. Heck, I doubt I am.
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It may be a baseline unit of sensory processing, but one, much like fear, that you don't need to be attached to per se.
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I feel like my own attachment to the stories (yet I'm still telling them) seems to be approaching 0, which makes them oddly hydralike.
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My stories are constantly dying and forming new branches. They seem to do that without issue, keeping internal consistency remarkably well.
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Sometimes they retcon things, sometimes they rewrite them entirely, mostly they leave them the same and append some commentary to them.
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I think it worked a lot less well before I stopped caring so much about whether the stories were true or not. Maybe that's what I mean.

