I know that for many people having kids is great. Bravo. But I am so very glad I did not.
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Key seems to be not to give too much or too little. Most people have character flaws or bad childhoods pulling one way or the other.
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If anything though, this all boils down to the notion that it should be the responsibility of one or two people to raise a child. Insanity.