When you blame others for your life circumstances, you give away your agency. Don't be a victim; it's the weakest position to have.
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Yes, but disentangling yourself from victimhood, particularly if you've been abused, is difficult - like learning to walk again.
If someone is too weak/defeated/overwhelmed to do that, it's not necessarily possible to do that. Fetishizing victimhood, OTOH, is terrible.
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