On the most basic level, it's more viable to accept full responsibility for your own shit - even what you can't control...
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... than to accept responsibility for anyone else's shit, but renouncing even one bit of your own.
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Not because this is the most realistic, necessarily, but because it's the only way you won't internalize guilt over others or deflect blame.
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(Although do note that you really *can't* control most of your behaviour - it's just that putting it on others has unhealthy consequences.)