In addition to being sweet and loving, this is also condescending as fuck, yes.
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Mmh. Funniest personal side-effect of meditation is that I become completely unable to take neuroticism seriously. Seems common.
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hmmm, I hadn't thought of it quite that way. I still do feel bad for them, but what can I do? Nothing they won't let me.
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By "take seriously", I exactly mean to treat it with anything else than loving condescension. As you say, what can you do?
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I can lift it off them in a second if they really give me permission; I can give them permission to lift it if they want it.
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Mmh. People either want help, or they want an actor in their personal drama. Usually easy to see which it is when in calm equanimity