At times I've wanted to become Really Extraverted by Working Through Trauma Stuff
Currently, though, I'm more like: it's okay if it's awkward sometimes; it's okay if we don't know what to say; it's okay if it could be more fun. It's all okay with me, what about you?
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Yeah, well. You don't need to engineer preferences into yourself when you're real about who you are and what you want (itself also not a fixed thing).
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The caveat on this for me has always been: ...and if you can find people to do the things you want with you
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People come when they are called. You have to be ready for them, or at least willing to work it out.
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The way in which people just sort of appear when we're ready is part of the Hi-Magix™ of this plane.